Every woman dreams of the day she marries her prince charming. In many cases, by the time a woman is proposed to she has already planned about half of her wedding, and has a pretty clear cut idea of what kind of wedding she prefers. Once the wedding planning starts, the soon to be the bride realizes that so many of the wedding planning myths she had heard prior to her engagement were not accurate. Is it true that there is some degree of stress related to wedding planning, yes! But will the bride lose hair and friends over the planning of her big day, no. Brides may find it beneficial to know upfront that there are many myths circulating about wedding planning. Understanding what is fact and what is fiction will be a helpful tool for couples who are planning their big day.
Friends Can Provide the Same Quality of Service as Wedding Vendors
Weddings can be expensive and that is not a myth, but hiring well-meaning friends to take on professional roles such as photographer, baker, disc jockey, florist, makeup artist, hair stylist, and wedding planner, may not turn out the professional quality results that wedding vendors can supply. While it may seem like a great financial option for saving money, the end result can be downright disappointing when the bride has such high expectations. If the money is a concern and the budget isn’t flexible, it would be helpful to find a wedding vendor and ask for recommendations on professionals who can accommodate those with small budgets.
You Have to Wear White
Traditionally, women have worn white dresses and a veil; however, that does not mean that wearing white is mandatory. Today’s bride has such a wide variety of wedding gown choices that even the most modern of brides will be pleased and find something that meets her unique taste. Colors like blush, yellow, and even red have been seen on many of the trendiest of runways. Shades of white also vary, and for the bride who wants to stay as close to tradition as possible while still avoiding wearing white, colors such as eggshell, offer an excellent alternative to stark white. Veils these days are also an optional choice. Another hot look and the option of integrating color into brides wedding day attire is by adding a sash. Sashes offer a splash of color and can even be coordinated with the bridesmaid dresses or even the wedding day colors. The use of jackets and cropped cardigans are also an option for accessorizing and infusing color. Clips, tiaras, and even feathers are classy choices that will be well received by even the most conservative of guests.
The Guest List Must Feature All of Those Whose Wedding You Have Attended
With the rising cost of weddings, it is sometimes impossible to invite just anyone. It is not considered poor etiquette or rude to not invite those who have invited you to their wedding. Weddings come in a wide variety, some big and some not so big. Many people understand that not everyone has an endless wedding budget and when paying per person in attendance, it is expected that not everyone will make it on the guest list. If the bride and groom find themselves feeling guilty about being unable to invite certain guests, they can always host a low-key post-wedding reception to include everyone.
Wedding Planners are a Waste of Money
The necessity, of hiring a wedding planner, is sometimes overlooked when evaluating the cost and allowed budget. However, when taking into account the quality of weddings that are a direct result of a well-seasoned wedding planner and also the amount of money a professional planner can save the bride and groom, the cost is easily justified. What many people don’t realize is that a majority of professional wedding planners have contracts with local wedding vendors and can secure major discounts that would otherwise be unavailable to the bride. Wedding planners also greatly reduce the amount of stress that can accumulate from the planning of a wedding. Now, not all budgets can accommodate the use of a wedding planner, but if the bride and groom can find areas to save money, hiring a wedding planner for just the day of the big event, can help them to fully enjoy their special day.
Do It Yourself Projects are Budget Friendly
There are definitely cases in which taking on a project to do yourself will save money, in the long run; however not all projects are worth the time, money, and effort. Taking the time to research cost and time associated with individual projects is helpful prior to investing in bulk materials. It is also a good idea to be sure that there will be individuals who are willing and able to assist in executing any planned projects. The closer the wedding draws near, the bride will be much busier than she may expect, so completing projects in advance would be helpful.
