Most of those who plan their weddings may probably be ignoring one simple fact that there are some who would crush their wedding. For most, the thought of a wedding crasher is impossible. In truth though, a wedding will not totally be completed without these wedding crashers. So can we really avoid having them around? Well, there are some ways to avoid them although this will still depend on the type of wedding crasher you do not want to get in.
Better create a lookout. It may be silly to assign someone to look for a wedding crasher since you will be too caught up in the moment to worry about these issues and, of course, you should not. There is no need to out and hire secret service though. All you have to do is to ask a couple of people identify those who are attending at your wedding. If your wedding is a formal event and will happen in an exclusive place, ask your guests to bring their invitations for confirmation.
Having some people to look for wedding crashers can be uncomfortable since you also do not want to offend your guests. Keep in mind that there are some wedding crashers who just simply want to see your wedding or may have been brought by your other guests as dates, and the like. The intruders that you want to avoid are those whom you do not really know and may cause problems in the ceremony and reception.
Don’t panic though when you find there are intruders inside your wedding. A lot of those who attend wedding parties uninvited do so for harmless reasons and just there for the free food. It might be the case of someone arriving with a guest whom you actually invited. If you still uncomfortable about this, you can hit back and give them a seat in the back. Most of the time, though these intruders come to a wedding that is why caterers provide additional food. Of course, not everyone has good intention. For instance, an ex-lover may create a scene. In this case, you will need to get rid of the wedding crasher quickly with the least amount of attention.
It is rare that a crasher pose any serious threat to a wedding, but of course it is necessary to be prepared especially if you think someone might be there to ruin your big day wearing your gorgeous pearl bridal jewelry set. Having a uniformed security officer in the area can often ward off any intruders with ill intent. You can also ask if the venue has a security camera just in case.
