While the bride is doing most of the wedding planning, the groom, on the other hand, is also responsible for some parts of the wedding. As a groom, your responsibilities are to not just sit in a corner and wait for the bride to finish everything. You will also be given tasks and be responsible for your known obligation. It is not right to just let the bride do the wedding planning on her own because this is also your wedding.
Your first task as a groom is to find the right people to be in your bridal party. Find responsible groomsmen that will just be with you when you need them the most. However, make sure that you are also keeping tabs on your groomsmen and find out if they have already had their tuxedos or suit for the wedding. Make sure that you also talked to them about how you want your bachelor party. Some of your groomsmen may want to hire strippers for the event and if you are not comfortable with that, you should tell them that this is not your cup of tea.
Make proper arrangements and planning ten months in advance so you will know if everything is going according to plan. You do not want that on the day of your wedding that one of your groomsmen was not able to get the right tuxedo or one of them is totally drunk before the wedding takes place.
You will also need to find the right formal wear. The bride will be wearing a great looking bridal gown and stunning beach wedding jewelry so make sure that your suit will just match that. Your suit would totally be out of place if you are going to wear casual beach attire when you are going to have a formal hotel wedding. Ask the bride for her opinion about what you should wear. Start planning this, four months in advance and consider the location of your wedding.
And, of course, you will also have to plan your honeymoon location. You will have to think of a place where the bride can enjoy. You can give the bride a big surprise so you have to find the right location months before the wedding takes place. The earlier you plan your location, the cheaper you can book for flights and hotel rooms.
And to make your whole wedding planning complete, buy your bride a gift. You may think that the best gift you can give her is you. But, of course, everyone loves gifts and if you are going to give your bride her bridal jewelry set, she will totally be excited about how you consider always.
